Saving my Relationship-A New Chapter to Happiness

How can I start saving my relationship? Save your relationship is no different than any other save.
 The very first thing is to establish and get clear on the fact that your relationship is valuable to you and it’s worth saving.
You have to stop to take for granted and do things that contribute to the erosion.
 Your next step is to assess the damage.

How do I work out what’s going wrong in my relationship?

Take a long cool look at your relationship issues.
It is for all of your complaints about your partner just write it down.
 Instead, hold the mirror up to yourself and ask, ‘What am I doing that is making this relationship go bad?’.
Be honest with yourself.
 What do you do deliberately to press your partner’s emotional buttons? If you want things to change, you have to start changing YOUR behaviour.
What happens if my partner is not willing to change? Many couples are very childish as their relationship comes into stormy waters.
 They develop an over-sensitivity to the balance of give and take in a relationship and get very irate if they feel that their partner isn’t contributing their fair share to the partnership.
This can become a kind of negative tit-for-tat war going on: you did not set out the garbage, I do not do justice    50-50 in a relationship is NOT the answer in saving your realtionship. Couples think that a relationship is 50-50. 50 percent him and 50 percent her. Well if you are only going to give 50% into the relationship is that REALLY giving all of yourself to that person. You must give 100% into the relatioship for it to work not half of yourself. IF you want to save your relationship you must also be willing to give 100% or did you really love this person as you claim? Look in the mirror.
 If you want to save your relationship, you need to accept 100% of the responsibility for saving it.
You have be willing to give 100% effort – even if your partner does not

How do I repair the damage?

Your cool assessment will reveal your personal contribution to the downturn in your relationship.
 Use the principles that Maxwell Maltz talked about in his book, The Magic of Making Up.
Visualize your report on typical scenarios in your mind and re-act, rather than the old way to trade you see yourself in a positive way.  See your relationship blossoming with love. That’s all that matters -Just DO it .
 See it first in your mind’s eye, then do everything you can to put it out there.
Love is around the corner be willing to put your pride down and work on saving your relationship.

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