Fixing Your Mistakes With Your Ex Girlfriend

Have you ever wondered what you have to do to get your ex girlfriend back?  If you have, the first thing needed is an understanding that this is a very delicate situation.  Upper most would have to be the fact that her feelings are hurt.  (Your feelings in fact are secondary right now.)  Taking that into consideration you must be careful in whatever you do to fix your mistakes because you run the risk of hurting her even more.

Below I have outlined 5 steps necessary in determining how to fix your mistakes with your ex girlfriend.

1. Look over the circumstances which led to your breakup and figure out just what you did wrong.  Women don’t breakup “just because”.  They breakup because you have done one, two, three or more things when added up led them to leave the relationship.  Your initial step in this fix it process is to honestly determine what you may have done wrong.  Then figure out if it could have been prevented and finally devising a solution on how to fix it!
2. If it was all your fault then the first thing you have to do is maybe for the first time you have to be an adult and admit you were wrong!  Oftentimes admitting guilt is the first step on the road to relationship repair. 
3. Whatever you do, don’t become a hermit.  Continue socializing with people.  Be active.  Now that you and your ex girlfriend are no longer a couple, doesn’t mean that you have to cut yourself off from everyone you know.  Date again, go out with friends and have fun.  In fact this might cause your ex girlfriend to become jealous and want you back.
4. Living your life to the fullest also shows her that you’ve moved on.  But at the same time you need to demonstrate to her that you care about her.  This will no doubt increase her perception of you as a mature and attractive person.  A person she might need to reconsider as a partner.
5. Your efforts to fix your mistakes are all based upon the fact that, no matter what happened; the two of you are still friends.  This will pave the way for the rebuilding of trust.  Remember trust was probably shattered when the relationship fell apart.  But rekindling trust will work to bring the two of you back together.

Once you’ve re-established your friendship, it will eventually lead you to ask an important question.  A question which must not come from desperation, but from a genuine feeling of wanting to know just what led to the breakup.  Once you find out from her what the reason, or reasons, was you can move on from there.

 Remember, these are just some of the beginning steps in fixing what you broke.  If you would like to know more steps in this process I would like to recommend an author named T ‘Dub’ Jackson.  He authored a book called “The Magic of Making Up”.  If worked for me and I know it will work for you.  But for it to work, you have to give it a try. 

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