All about Relationships: He says he Loves me but not in Love with me

“He says he loves me, but not in love with me”- you’ll hear this statement oftentimes from a lot of women.  It’s a little bit sardonic really when your boyfriend tells you he loves you but you feel he no longer loves you.   But before stressing yourself or thinking a lot about this, let us first try to gauge if he really doesn’t love you at all- or, you’re just assuming…

He says he loves me but not in love with me

Sometimes, when your boyfriend fails to meet you on a date, you think he no longer cares.  And in a little while you’ll receive a text message from him saying sorry and that he loves you.  What is true?  Well, you need to understand that you’re no longer a kid.  The older you become, the more obligations you will have.  Same way with your hubby.  He also has responsibilities to do but it doesn’t mean he no longer loves you.  Give it a few days or a week and if he tries to reach out to you, then essentially he’s still loves you; it’s just that he doesn’t have the opportunity to be with you always.

Assessing your feelings

Before concluding that your husband or boyfriend no longer loves you, try to assess yourself first.  Sometimes, are emotions such as feelings of depression overcome us to the extent that we no longer see the bright side of our relationships.  You may be feeling that he no longer loves you even though he really does.  It’s kinda terrible to hear but its true- some of us have insecurities.  Well, all of us have insecurities.  It’s just that there are people who can deal with their insecurities and there is who can’t.  When you see your boyfriend chatting with other girls, do you feel like he’s cheating on you or do you feel something unpleasant?  Sometimes, we are just carried away by our insecurities that we often don’t notice that our partners are still in love with us.

Maybe it’s you not him

Before believing if he doesn’t love you at all, why not ask yourself the same question?  Maybe the reason why your husband is no longer sweet as before is because he thinks you’re no longer interested with him.  Maybe your boyfriend feels the same way to and telling his friends “she says she loves me but not in love with me”.

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